Berlind was born to a Jewish family[2] in New York City, to Mae (née Miller) and Peter Sydney Berlind, a hospital administrator.[3] He attended Princeton University and received his bachelor's degree in English in 1954 after completing an 82-page long senior thesis titled "The Quest of the Ideal in the Plays of Yeats and Synge".[4] Berlind was a member of the Princeton Tower Club. The crash of Eastern Air Lines Flight 66 on June 24, 1975 killed his wife, Helen Polk Clark, and three of his four children.[5][6]